A few years ago, when Pamela and I were young assistant brand managers (ABM), we wanted to write a book called “my life lessons as an ABM”.
Eventually, I got promoted to a brand manager; she left P&G to start up the Facebook office in the Philippines.
The book did not happen but we kept in touch.
Last night, I dug up the draft – it was last edited in 2013 (TIME FLIES!)
It is an incomplete raw list, but here goes.
About the job
- Rule #1: Get shit done
- Rule #2: Don’t forget rule #1
- You will feel stupid occasionally. It is OK, which means you are growing.
- Knowledge leadership is power
- But, knowledge without action is rubbish. Be bias for action
About doing the job
- 80/20 is good enough
- Multitasking is counterproductive
- Deliver more than what you are expected
- Big decisions are usually made before the meeting
- Take responsibility for your failure too; Don’t be a pussy
About the office
- People will gossip, try not to play along
- People will judge you, live with it
- Make genuine friends
- Stay close to the team admin. They know a lot
- Keep grace under pressure. Maturity matters
- Be likable. People don’t help those they hate
- Be genuine. People knows when you are faking no matter how good you are
- Think and articulate concisely. If you can’t influence, it is your fault
- Build self-awareness. Drop the ego
- EQ will be more powerful than IQ eventually
About the bosses
- Bosses are just like us but older (they pee in their pants too)
- Good bosses are sponge, they absorb the pressure from their bosses
- Some bosses are vampires – they suck you dry.
- Bosses hate surprises (well, the only surprise you should give is birthday surprise!)
- Always choose a good boss over a good role
About work life balance
- It doesn’t exist. Work is part of life
- Have hobbies and friends outside of work
- It is OK to have lunch alone
- Call your parents. They worry about you but they won’t tell you
- Work will not attend your funeral. Your family and friends will
- Salary is a drug – it is addictive
- So, live below your mean
- Learn to invest. Salary won’t make you financially free
- Money can buy you many things
- But money can’t buy you purpose in life. You must look inside of yourself to know what makes your life meaningful.
P.s: Pamela replied me and here’s what she has to say.
Wow. time flies! I almost forgot about this! Thanks for reminding. Good old times 🙂
Here are just a few of the best I learned while working at Facebook for one year:
- It’s unrealistic to be awesome every day. Strive to find your operating rhythm. Some days you will work for 14 hours, others you will work for 4 hours. This is okay.
- Oftentimes, done is better than perfect – act now, ask for forgiveness later. That’s better than not having anything to write at the next monthly sales update.
- In one year, people will not remember what you said, or what you did, or what your revenue attainment was. But they will always remember the way you made them feel.
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